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After the Wedding Fever: A Maid of Honour’s Take on Weddings

After a week of being the maid of honour in a wedding, it was heartwarming to see your loved one getting married. It was an emotional rollercoaster moment. Seeing them up there with their partner, it's hard to put the happiness into words. 


Now that the wedding fever is over, it has gotten me thinking. What is my take on wedding ceremonies? 


As someone who has attended many weddings, I would prefer attending one rather than organising one. However, isn't it an absolute pleasure to create a wedding ceremony that is filled with everything the bride and groom want? After all, it is their wedding. The colour-coded bridesmaid dresses, surprise dances, emotional vows and the surprise performances. It has everything!


However, there are some unavoidable low moments in planning the wedding! Relatives! The quirky bunch of people who show up with unnecessary questions. Though they are just part of the ceremony, they could test your patience a lot. So be smart when creating the guest list!


Speaking of planning the wedding. As the maid of honour and someone who spent a year closely with the bride in the lead-up to the wedding, I think it's essential to list the things the bride should remember when planning the wedding. 


Choosing the Right Makeup Artist Matters More Than You Think





When you are getting married right after choosing the right partner, you need to choose the right makeup artist for you. Throughout the whole ceremony, you are going to spend more time with them. You have to make sure you are in the same vibration with them, and they can understand your preferences and concerns. You need to ensure your makeup artist is aware of your skin type, whether it is sensitive or prone to sweating. They need to personalise for you. If it helps, get one that does not gossip unnecessarily. It will save you from unwanted negativity on your big day.


Your Bridesmaids Can Make or Break Your Day




Walking down the aisle is the most precious part of the wedding for both bride and groom, but especially for the bride. The goosebump moments of walking towards the soon-to-be-husband with the best feeling ever. So, how is it going to be? Your bridesmaids are pillars when it comes to creating the wedding vibes for you. Hence, it is essential to choose bridesmaids who support you on your big day. Do not make the mistake of inviting someone out of obligation. If you even smell a whiff of negativity or you are having doubts about whether to make them your bridesmaid, then the answer is a clear no! Remember more positive people around you, the happier your day will be!


Choose how your moments should be captured





Gone are the days when couples had no say in how their wedding photos turned out. Today, you have the freedom to decide how your story is captured, and it’s a privilege worth taking advantage of. Discuss your preferences with your photographer ahead of time. Share the kind of shots you love, how you want your solo portraits to look, and what moments matter most to you as a couple. When your photographer understands your vision, they can truly capture the essence of who you are together. This is your moment to shine.


An important side note: Never forget to fill your tummy with some snacks, even if you don't feel like eating. Let your maid of honour or bridesmaids know to look out for this. It may seem small, but it can make a huge difference to your energy and mood throughout the day


At the end of the day, a wedding is a beautiful expression of love between two people. So plan it your way, not based on what others want. If your big day is coming up, I wish you the happiest married life. And to all the maids of honour, brace yourselves for a beautiful, eventful day.

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